Dreams Denied or Simply Deferred?

When will this economy right itself?  Sometimes I sit thinking, “there must be more that I could do…”  My thoughts range from starting a new business to thinking deeper about the skill set I would need to get a job in the workforce of the future.  Unfortunately, I fail to see the value in traditional post-graduate studies, unless you are going into medicine, energy, or planning to pursuing careers in some emerging market.  On the job front, we currently face very distinct realities: 1) we cannot acquire enough education to outmatch the legions of unemployed who have 10 to 15 years of actual work experience in the exact same field you have just chosen to pursue; 2) we cannot prevent the constant desire for corporations to automate (… or outsource) as many non-core operating functions as possible; 3) the close personal friend, or family member, who said they will pass your resume internally at their firm or company will likely have told 10-20 others people the same; and 4) the only people successfully applying for jobs in this economy are those who are currently working (….irony).  In short, no new jobs are being created.

To the point of resource optimization, if we, as Americans, have accomplished nothing else, we have definitely maximized the benefits of supply chain management.  We have learned that it is so much cheaper to manufacture and produce durable goods overseas, particularly when markets like China and India contain such highly skilled labor.  Our manufacturing and industrial production has become largely marginalized, as many of these assets are now foreign owned – steel production to auto manufacturing.  The United States has become primarily a service based economy, which lends itself to businesses that can be effectively operated with decent logistics and/or information management systems (with fewer workers and less operating capital).  Considering the frequency that call centers have been outsourced overseas, many service sector careers may soon become obsolete as well.

With that being said, our best option, given the economic prospects for finding a job, is to become an entrepreneur.  In fact, consider becoming a serial entrepreneur, as your first endeavor may not yield the “end-game” results you may hope, if it does not fail entirely.  But there should be a tremendous amount of practical knowledge that you should take from each experience.  This knowledge will ultimately enhance your prospects for success in the next project.

Still, what remains is this…. it is incredibly difficult and time consuming to start a company, business or whatever you would call your entrepreneurial pursuit (if this was not the case, everyone would be there own boss).  The most challenging part, beyond just getting started is, even when you are on the right path to success, is the difficulty in seeing progress in your efforts as an entrepreneur.  Only through unyielding drive, persistence and perseverance will that success ever be realized.  Pardon the cliche, but it truly takes “intestinal fortitude” and self-belief to continue when no one else believes.  What is important now will be important then – you must believe in yourself.

*If I might digress for a moment, admittedly that intestinal fortitude reference is as yawn inspiring as when people refer to the rubber meeting the proverbial road.  But truth is truth whether you like it or not, and these things become cliche for a reason.

So as I was suggesting, the length of time it takes to start a business may require you taking jobs that are much less desirable to keep your “ends” meeting.  And this is how dreams deferred may ultimately become denied.  Please if you are on this path, working in a job you hate just to pay bills while you develop your business plan or self-fund your start-up costs, do not give up.  Do not become complacent with the prospect of earning just enough to simply pay bills.  There will be a time in the not too distant future when you will face a critical point.  You will have to choose – either continue in your current capacity, as an hourly wage worker or a check to check salaried employee, or take the plunge by scraping together whatever savings you have amassed and go “both feet in”.  You know where I stand on this issue.

I guess I starting thinking about this specific topic after speaking to Eric earlier today.  He was telling me about his discussion with one of his mentors, who happens to be extremely successful and sits on several Fortune 500 corporate boards.  Eric came away with a new perspective on his approach to the job search and/or considerations for entrepreneurship.  I thought some of the takeaways were at least interesting enough to share.

  • If you have kids (married or not), providing for your family should always come first – even if it means deferring your dreams
  • Give yourself time to build some financial resources before jumping into entrepreneurial uncertainty
  • The odds are generally against you that your first entrepreneurial effort will succeed – be sure to learn the lessons to apply next time
  • Do not focus on variables or things outside of your control
  • Know when to fight for survival of your endeavor and when to cut your losses

Be persistent, the tide will eventually turn in your direction.

One Response to “Dreams Denied or Simply Deferred?”

  1. Rahman says:

    Hi April,

    I enjoyed reading you blog post and some of your other posts I have read as well. Out of curiousity, are you the same April that used to live in BK and you go by the name of Michon? If so shoot me an e-mail some time if you remember who I am. Later.

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